Girlfriend Training Program by Carlos Xuma,
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Dear Friend…
“Training” a girl to never lose her attraction? Getting all the sex with none of the drama?
Sounds too good to be true, right?
Guess what? It’s NOT.
And I’m going to prove it right here on this page to you.
Look – have you ever lost a girl you were really into?
OR are you afraid you’ll lose the right one when she comes along?
Remember when you were out with that hot, sexy, funny chick? She was cute and cool. No games or weirdness at all.
You had a good feeling about this one. You couldn’t wait to have her meet your friends. You even found yourself planning stuff in the future to do with her.
She lost interest and stopped calling.
She was gone.
And you don’t even know what the hell happened. It feels like someone pulled the rug out from under you and then pushed you down a flight of stairs.
And now you’re afraid that you’ll meet The One for you…
… and it will happen all over again.
It’s much more agonizing to lose a woman you’ve got than it is to just mess up an approach with a girl you barely know or care about.
Look, really, what if you run into HER tomorrow…?
You know – The Right One for you. Do you know what to do right from the very start so you don’t lose her?
You’re not alone.
I’ve had all of these things happen to me, and over the years I’ve coached thousands of guys with similar problems. You meet a girl, things get going, and then for one reason or another (you never figure out exactly why), it all comes to an end.
And you know what else?
It’s not your fault!
Women have been training guys from the very first date to shape and “mold” you into the kind of boyfriend they think they can wrap around their finger. And you probably had NO idea it was happening to you!
Women have been training guys for years…
Why don’t you turn it around like this?
Doesn’t that sound much better to you? It does to me.
Stay with me here, because that’s what I’m going to show you how to do:
Most guys do NOT know how to start things up so their girlfriend will be worry and drama-free, and everything is on autopilot…
…they don’t know how to start things with a girlfriend that’ll give them the kind of sex, attention, and freedom they dream about – it’s just not something most guys can figure out on their own!
And it takes more than just common sense to choose a girlfriend and start a relationship…
Relying on common sense with women is a Sure-Fire Death Sentence!
I want to tell you something that you might find shocking – or maybe you suspected all along:
Did you know that women are training you?
It’s true. Women even use that exact word when they talk about it.
“Training.”
Before you get mad about that, let me share something else with you:
My girlfriend told me about a conversation she had with some of her girlfriends over coffee a few days ago.
Here – listen in on their conversation:
Megan: “So you’re saying that you got your boyfriend – that big macho guy – to do all the cooking and cleaning in your house?”
Claire: “Yup! It’s great. I can go out and just have fun with the girls. Just like right now. Oh, and you know what the best part is?”
Megan:“He’ll give you a massage when you get home?” (Laughs)
Claire: “Probably! But that’s not it. Get this – he even walks my dog, Precious, for me. He wanted to go with his friends to a Giants game today, but I convinced him to watch Precious instead.”
Megan: “Wow! You’ve got him trained well!” (Laughs)
Claire: “Tell me about it!” (Laughs)
If you haven’t figured it out by now, their giggles were not the warm, loving laughter of women who cherish and admire their men.
No, it was the laughter of women who were celebrating Claire “pulling one over” on her boyfriend.
And all of the other women laughed because they wished they could train their boyfriends just like she did.
This isn’t the exception – this is pretty much the rule with every woman out there.
Do any of these sound familiar to you?
I bet you’ve had one of those situations happen to you at one time or another. Girlfriends are cool, but no one really tells you what it takes to keep her, keep her happy, and keep her addicted like a junkie to pull you back into bed with her – again and again.
So now what you need to do is:
Most guys have challenges with women – that’s no secret. And there are FOUR big areas where we find it hard to deal with girlfriends:
1) Starting up a relationship
This is all about getting her into you enough to want to see you – and ONLY you. And eventually – maybe – even fall in love with you. It’s that feeling of control and power at the start that you want to keep forever. And it’s also about knowing which women to choose and which to leave behind.
You want her as your “YES!” girl, right? Always says YES when you call her to ask her out.
2) Keeping her walking on air – happy and totally attracted to you
You want to keep her into you, and even obsessed and addicted to you if possible. This also includes keeping the sex hot and fun and knowing how to satisfy her at a physical level. It’s that seemingly magical ability to delight a woman and keep her excited to be with you.
3) Understanding what she’s thinking – and knowing how to deal with different types of women
This is all about knowing how to read different women, and not get caught unaware or off-guard. It’s also about knowing if she’s the right one for you, and how to avoid the women that are wrong for you.
4) Handling conflicts and arguments
And this skill is all about how to communicate and connect with women – and how to fix things when there’s a problem. It’s also about how to read a woman’s signals, and how to recover when you blow it.
This all might sound like some kind of fantasy or something, but I’m here to tell you that you can actually master these abilities with women – so that you never have to feel like you’re the one being “trained,” your girlfriend is always hot and attracted to you like a fly to honey, and you never need to worry about her leaving you for some other guy.
You don’t really want a “relationship” that takes tons of effort and pain to make it work.
And that’s where I come in.
I’ll show you the unconventional path that lets you work less and get more from the women in your life (lots more). If you’ve already got a girlfriend, you’ll take what you have and push it through to levels you’ve only dreamed of ‘til now. And that’s not fluff – I’ve done it for just about any kind of guy out there.
If you don’t have a girlfriend yet – you will discover how to choose the best possible woman for you – and start it right so that the attraction never burns out.
Because the best solution is to…
Look, I often talk about this process of starting and keeping things going with your girlfriend as being like “girlfriend training.” I realize this can be shocking for some guys to hear, so I want to explain that it’s not negative or derogatory in any way. It’s simply a fact of life.
What I’m talking about is that training your girlfriend is just an educational process. You get to discover how women work, and she gets to learn how YOU work…
…and more importantly, she learns how to respect and admire you as a MAN.
Without those two elements of respect and admiration, she’s going to always want something else.
SOMEONE else.
Now…
Ask any woman and she will confirm it: Women are always “in the game.”
She’s always got a guy (or two) on the line that she can go out with on a moment’s notice. She may or may not be interested in him, but she’s got her ‘orbiters’ waiting for a chance to take her out.
You know that woman you just met and got her phone number? Maybe you even have a date setup?
I hate to tell you this, but she’s seeing her “other guys” right now, too. You probably think she’s this sweet, lonely girl who sits home and watches cable in her fuzzy pajamas, but she’s not. She’s screening several guys at once.
You’re just another contestant on the “Who Gets Her?” game show, friend.
So you have to be ON your game when you want to make her your girlfriend – because options are waiting for her. THAT is why women can be so interested one minute and then totally flake out and disappear on you the next. She’s just exercising her options.
And you got eliminated.
The truth is that everything starts with knowing fire things up with a woman – to make her your girlfriend. To get the attraction going, and get her interested in you, to the point where she finds you hypnotically sexy – she’s completely turned on around you, and always looking forward to you asking her out again and again.
And if you don’t get it started up right with her, you’re going to need this:
She’ll go out with you for a date that you spent a butt-load of time planning and arranging, only to have her tell you (after you ate out at that expensive restaurant, of course):
Ever heard a woman say that? It’s like being punched in the stomach with a bowling ball.
The hell with that! You don’t want “just friends” – you want freaky passionate sexy fun.
But she’s really hot, so you think: “Hmmm… Friends is better than nothing, I guess.”
So you go along with it, hoping to sneak in the back door and prove to her she should be your girlfriend. Only she keeps pushing you further and further away, until you’re just another person she complains to about how there’s “no good men out there.”
WTF?
“What about ME???” you want to scream at her.
Guys get sucked into this trap with women all the time, and it’s about as fun as five hours in the dentist’s chair getting your teeth pulled out. I’m going to show you how to avoid this disaster in just a second.
But there is one situation that’s worse, and this one happens a lot more than we want to admit. Let’s say you manage to avoid the friends-only zone with her and you get her to date you…
It doesn’t start out this way, of course. It’s always seems great in the beginning.
You’re hot for her & she’s hot for you. You just can’t keep your hands off each other.
But then you call her up one day and she tells you she’s feeling a little “under the weather.” Maybe she’s got a “friend” visiting her from out of town.
Whatever the excuse is, and a lot of times the reason is even true, she purposely let that reason get in the way of YOU, my friend. And when you’re not a priority to her, you’re in deep trouble.
And then things never seem to recover after that.
She eventually either pushes you away so hard that you have to break up with her, or eventually she dumps you.
I know this sounds harsh, but it’s a pattern that goes on ALL the time with men and women.
The pattern goes like this:
What usually happens at this point is that you become worried and paranoid of losing her. Then you try harder and harder to win her back.
And you know what she does next?
She pushes you away even harder. You know you’re caught up in a losing battle, sliding down the hill faster and faster – but you just want to save things and keep her as your girlfriend.
And if you don’t break it off with her by now, the worst thing in the world happens: She cheats on you…
…or finally she just dumps you.
It doesn’t matter if she’s someone you just met, or your new girlfriend, or the woman you’ve been with for 5 years, or the woman you’re married to.
Women let you think that you won them, then they will start losing interest in you the minute you start ACTING like you’ve won her.
You should read that last sentence again. It’s critical.
Look, maybe you’re not getting dumped…
There’s also the other side of the coin – maybe you’re trying to find a woman that’s WORTH staying with, and you end up having to break up and keep looking – over and over again.
Well, most of this problem, as well as the problem of keeping a girlfriend, comes back around to those same hot-buttons for attraction. You can actually inspire a woman to be on her best behavior with you – and rise up to your standards, instead of becoming a nagging drama queen.
Most of being successful with women is knowing what qualities to look for, and how to deal with every kind of woman you meet along the way. Some you can have as “play” girlfriends, and some women you might want for long-term girlfriends or more.
But if you don’t know how to understand women’s psychology and choose well right from the very start, you’re in for a rough ride.
There are also a TON of “Red Flags” you need to watch out for – warning signs that a woman is bad news. Missing those clues could leave you rocketing off the edge of a very tall cliff.
Don’t forget that when you do meet a high-quality woman, you need to know how to keep her interested in you. These quality women are harder to find – and they respond to very different behaviors than the women you meet in some bar before closing time.
You gotta be her “Mr. Right” – right from the very start.
The fact of the situation is that…
It’s not because we’re aren’t good guys. It’s because we just don’t know how to stop the slippery slide down the hill once it starts.
The reason women go through this pattern with men – almost the exact same way each time – is because she’s expecting YOU to set the boundaries of the relationship for her so she knows where “out of bounds” is. (There’s an art to this, and I’m going to explain how it works in a minute.)
Ultimately, we all train other people how to treat us. They learn how to manipulate and control us, and then they lose all respect for us.
It’s not like this all the time with your friends, but it happens ALL THE TIME with girlfriends.
One of the biggest tests a woman gives is to give you enough rope to see if you’ll really hang yourself. And – unfortunately – most guys do. I’ve got scars from it… I suspect you might, too.
So if women are training men like this, how can you expect to win?
Keeping your girl on “Autopilot Attraction” is simply knowing the secrets of the 3 Girlfriend Skills:
You have to choose a girlfriend well, or no amount of skills can help you if you get in over your head. You have to know the important things that she must have to be your girlfriend, and you better know what red flags and qualities you do NOT want.
You have to know how to take it from casually dating a woman to turn her into your girlfriend. Most romances just fade and fizzle out – and if you don’t know what to do to take it from just “seeing her” to make her your girlfriend – you’re just going to lose another one.
Once you’ve got her, you have to know what to do to KEEP her attracted and interested in you. You already know what happens when you don’t know how to sustain it.
The big secret is that women are attracted to a set of specific emotional triggers and hot-buttons that men can find and push. They actually want you to push them so that they know you can “unlock” her heart. These are the things that sustain the attraction.
And the opposite is also true: There are a set of specific behaviors that men do that completely DESTROY a woman’s attraction for him.
Statistically speaking – and from my experience in coaching men of all ages and in all backgrounds, it’s very likely you are doing these attraction destroyers.Unintentionally, but doing them anyway – and driving women away.
It’s not your fault; it’s just that women are not good at communicating what they really want from men.
And you have to realize:
Women are different than men. (I know, that’s obvious…)
And unless you understand how they work, you will probably meet the same horrible fate as millions and millions of men do every year: pai