coming together couples by salon – Kim Anami,
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Most couples are not coming together. Some couples are not coming at all.
Not emotionally. Not sexually.
We live in a culture where over 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Only one third of women ever come or orgasm at all.
My work: all about coming together: emotionally + sexually. Multiple times.
Everyone ought to be on a rich, deep, fulfilling diet: of powerful, soul-food sex. Yet, few people are.
Most people subsist on a steady diet of fast-food sex that is neither fulfilling nor nourishing.
Like a poor diet, the effects build up over time.
A lack of gourmet sex and intimacy leads to everything from lethargy, depression, anger, weight gain and physical ailments. Women lose their reproductive organs, men are saddled with “erectile” and prostate issues; all the result of stuck sexual energy.
Our intimate life affects everything:
“Love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well, what causes sadness and what brings happiness, what makes us suffer and what leads to healing…I am not aware of any other factor in medicine- not diet, not smoking, not exercise, not stress, not genetics, not drugs, not surgery- that has a greater impact on our quality of life, incidence of illness and premature death from all causes.”
– Dr Dean Ornish
Sex is the glue.
If you aren’t using it as this superfuel, I guarantee that you are underperforming in every area of your life.
When our intimate relationship is thriving, other parts of our lives thrive.
We draw on this energy source and infuse its vitality into every area of our existence—making us better partners, business owners, artists and rush-hour drivers.
We glow.
Five thousand years ago in India and China, sex was considered healthy, essential, and a means to liberate spiritual energy. Ancient Taoist physicians mapped out sexual reflexology points on the penis and vulva to show that stimulating these zones would lead to balanced health.
They also prescribed sexual positions to cure ailments.
A woman experiencing digestive problems would be advised to have sex in the missionary position, with her legs wrapped around her partner’s midsection, since that angling of her body would direct potent sexual chi to the areas that needed it.
She would be given a prescription: go home and have sex in that position three times a day for the next 30 days.
Sex is medicine.
Sexual energy is powerful energy. When it’s not being harnessed or used, it stagnates. It inverts. It’s like trying to stop the eruption of a volcano: it can’t be stopped and it WILL erupt elsewhere… only not in a positive way.
Most people have NO IDEA how to create a healthy, powerful, passionate, energizing union.
Even people who are having good sex don’t know how to tap into this power of sexual energy.
From a young age, I had an awareness of my sexual energy. I could feel it as a tangible, powerful thing.
But I didn’t know what to do with it.
Looking at the examples and role models in our culture, I got involved in plenty of unhealthy relationships.
I would see the same patterns emerge over and over again.
Out of fear of going deeper, I would sabotage my relationships. I was painfully shy to express myself with someone I was attracted to. I didn’t know how to communicate what I wanted sexually.
I could be emotionally open with some people, like close friends and confidantes. I could be sexually open with my partners. But I didn’t know how to blend the two.
I reached a point where I’d experienced enough pain. I didn’t want to keep repeating the same patterns over and over again.
I resolved to change this part of my life and put everything I had into that journey.
There was no “sex + relationship” school I went to. I had to create my own.
I floundered, finding bits and pieces of sensual wisdom anywhere I could: from spiritual philosophy to relationship psychology to ancient Tantra and Taoist texts. The work I did allowed me to combine emotional vulnerability with the ability to abandon myself sexually.
What I found is that the sex amplified the love and the love intensified the sex. I reached incredible highs that left me permanently opened and transformed.
I remember spending an isolated weekend holed up in my family’s summer cabin with my boyfriend, my first love. We never left the confines of that space.
Having the entire weekend without any distractions gave us a chance to expose ourselves emotionally without holding back, which resulted in even more powerful and cataclysmic sex. He f**ked me open—on every level.
When I returned to work on the following Monday, I was carried by an energy and a lightness: I was smarter, wittier, happier, more compassionate, patient, and charming than I could ever remember being.
People gravitated to me. Men lingered at my cubicle, finding excuses to talk to me.
I had a clear answer for every problem that came my way, and I felt as though I fit in the flow of life.
This is the essence of conscious, powerful sex: using our intimate connection to transform our lives.
Fast forward almost twenty years and now I can make love to my partner without even touching him. I can have an orgasm from the sound of his voice. I can feel his touch when he is on another continent.
My sexual experiences have become so deep, so life-changing, that I’ve dedicated my life’s work to show others how the same is possible for them.
And it is. It is possible for anyone. It is possible for YOU.
So here’s the “sex school” I wish I could have had. The one I have spent over two decades curating, testing and exploring.
I’m sharing it all with you: Ideas, techniques and solid action steps that will radically change you and your relationship from the inside out.
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